莆田股票配资哪家专业

“神兽”归笼:家长不要高兴得太早

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SHIJIAN:2020-05-19 13:43:11


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随着我国新冠肺炎疫情不断向好,各地中小学校也陆续开学,在家憋了好几个月的“神兽”们开始复课。对此,很多家长表示“做梦都要笑出了声”,觉得终于可以松口气了。不过,中国科学院心理研究所的黄峥博士却提醒各位家长“不要高兴得太早”——习惯在家生活的孩子,回到班集体,重新适应校园生活,很可能会出现一系列“不良反应”,需要家长投入更多的时间、精力和耐心进行疏导和帮助。

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引导孩子建立更成熟的是非观

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影响孩子后续行为反应的,是教育者的归因方式

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延迟满足的能力比智商的作用更大

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